One in control has authority which is highly valued. What ever my future career I want to be in control. Humans are enthralled by the lives of people in control. If in control you make the rules for people to follow. People are so concerned with being in control because they want to make decisions not choices.
Everyone wants control because people with control hold benefits. They are in charge and they make the standards for other people, including themselves. I never actually thought about control as the word itself but I always talk about things that mean the same as control. …